Tuesday, July 14, 2009

More Sexism

I've already listened too much to these Senate confirmation hearings for Judge Sonia Sotomayor. I'm super annoyed at the sexism in these hearings. No man would ever be accused of having a temperament problem. Where do these guys get off? He's badgering and condescending- does he think it's southern charm?

From the New York Times: “Do you have a temperament problem?” he asked. No, she replied. But he pressed on, saying the comments about her were “tough stuff” and having been raised at this hearing, should offer her an opportunity for “self-reflection.”

What a jerk.

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Outrage and Sadness

I am very upset and angry about abortion provider Dr. George Tiller's assassination. He was a hero for women's reproductive rights and health, a hero to abortion providers across the country, and a warm and caring soul. The hypocrisy of his being gunned down by an anti-choice nut job is just overwhelming. I don't even know what to say beyond that other than I have the utmost respect and gratitude for doctors who provide this vital service to women across the country and the world. There are fewer and fewer of them, and their targeting is abominable.

I hope to attend vigils in the Bay area should they materialize. If you want to send a note to his family expressing your support and condolences, visit the Feminist Majority Foundation action alert page.

Saturday, May 2, 2009

Work... Life?

When I was about to graduate high school, I had this depressing epiphany. Everything I do in high school, I realized, was done in pursuit of a great college experience at a great college. Then, I concluded, everything one does in college (at least academically) is in pursuit of a great job or great graduate school. But that's when it ended, right? Wrong.

I've entered the working world, the professional world, full speed ahead. My boss encouraged me to join the professional organization of fundraisers called AFP (the Association of Fundraising Profesionals). Not only have I joined, but I have joined a committee (the collegiate chapter - sounded like a good idea because I am so recently collegiate, and it feels more like a college club than it has any right to be) AND joined the mentorship program. I'm a little overwhelmed. Mostly because since I joined AFP, work has been insane. But the larger problem than stress is this: all of the professional advancement I am undergoing is causing me to think about it ALL THE TIME. As an example, while running today (yes, sometimes I exercise), I ran by a garage sale - and thought to myself, "I wonder what they do, I should go and take some business cards." Truly desperate, I am not. Truly INSANE, I am.

So I have decided to begin a new full-time career on the weekends of chilling out. Also, no more AFP extracurriculars for awhile. We all have our limits. This is my new one. And I will begin being more lazy right after sending an email to the guy at the Dartmouth alumni mixer I attended on Thursday... AHHHHH!!!

My brother would be so proud. That alone is enough to make me question my actions.

Thursday, February 26, 2009

...And I'm Back!

There's internet working, so I figured I'd take advantage and update the blog during non-working hours.

I will admit it - I have a crush on Obama. He is getting more and more liberal, at least in my head - and his ideas outlined in his budget are top rate from that perspective. He's taking on healthcare reform, education reform, and ending our dependence on foreign sources of energy. He is the best. But here is why I think so - I had an epiphany today.

It's contrast. For eight years, we had Bush. We had defense spending, largely in the form of an unjust war, a widening of the gap between rich and poor via tax cuts that put nothing in the pockets of most, lots in the pockets of the few and the wealthy, and no progress on anything. We saw our rights disappearing before our very eyes. We had an increase of security at the airports. I saw guns - and not just any guns, machine guns- at JFK Airport. We had fear. Now, we have something different.

People are excited. Maybe it's too much excitement and some time in the near future we'll go back to ignoring the politics as it turns usual, but it feels like someone's turning the page and putting that chapter behind us. Appropriately enough, the person who is doing that is a reader - Barack Obama. He's so different. He's more pragmatic than I think I'll end up liking, but so far, his priorities are in line, and I LOVE the way he speaks. He is awesome- and he is oh so much better than what we are used to hearing.

Fareed Zakaria: "In Washington, when you want to increase government spending, it is called "investment," not "expenditure." Wasteful spending is spending - good spending is investment in the future." Touche.

One other thing on my mind is this: this lawsuit against the creator of the Obama "Hope" poster. He changed it into art instead of an AP photograph - so it's his now. I don't get how that couldn't possibly fall under fair use. He changed the colors, even changed the angle of the head - and transformed its purpose. If every street artist has to pay $5,000 to use that photograph (and believe me, I'm sure that is what it would be worth just to purchase the original copyright- because I know how much it costs to use the NY Times logo), that would put the kibosh on street art. We can't afford that. I'm worried the Supreme Court isn't on our side, the side of poor but creative. We'll see.

Alright, I'm done for tonight. Peace out.

Friday, January 23, 2009

Working Already? And DOING GOOD??

This guy rocks. He's been in office for three days, and already, he's signed an order to close Guantanamo, cleaned up ethics, and the best one right now, REPEALING THE GLOBAL GAG RULE!! How awesome is that?

He's making good decisions so far and moving quickly to do stuff - I'm impressed almost as much as I was emotional when he was inaugurated. Seriously, so proud, so happy, so... hopeful.

Thursday, January 8, 2009

A New Year, A New Post

Well, I have been more than derelict in my blogging lately. We have this problem in our apartment... the internet cannot find us there. It is very sad indeed. Thus, here I am, sitting at work after hours and writing a blog post.

Anyway, Happy New Year to the reader - I'm channeling Car Talk's hosts, Click and Clack because I noticed I only have one follower of my blog. California January weather officially wins. I haven't put on more than a sweatshirt so far this winter, and it's only going to get warmer. Even while we were running to catch the fireworks at midnight on the Embarcadero in San Francisco it was warm! Perhaps it was just me running that made it warm, but it couldn't have been very chilly if I had to peel my clothing off upon the return to my friend's place to sleep that night. This was the best New Year's celebration I had ever had. Yes, there was drinking, but there was also stimulating conversation and discussion. It was not all revelry, but it was fun.

Still searching for a full-time job for the "missus," but all in all, we are happy. My parents are coming to visit the Bay Area for the first time (ever for my mom, in 40-odd years for my dad), so I am trying to come up with interesting travel plans to keep them busy and happy. It won't be too hard because I live in one of the most beautiful places in the country.

Work is good. As can be expected in a workplace full of women, there is never a dull moment, and rarely a moment goes by without some degree of drama. Today was almost entirely drama-free, however, so hooray for small miracles. I sat upstairs, all by my lonesome, while employees with whom I have little contact scurried around the building unseen and largely unheard, and I worked my bum off. Now I am satisfied, no longer stressed, and barely ahead of the curve. Every day is a struggle for me to take things slower and do them better, but this is my cross to bear and I am glad to be employed.

What else can I say? Saw The Last King of Scotland on Tuesday and had nightmares about it. Yesterday, I watched the gf cry during Charlie Wilson's War. We had both had wine and were upset about the state of the world and the universality of hate. Why, truly, can we not all get along? Tomorrow, The Savages arrives, and I will have to watch that by myself, for the gf is not yet at the point where she can be at peace with a movie about nursing homes. This past weekend, we received Don't Mess with the Zohan, which I encourage you all to see. It is an entertaining, if not somewhat crude, take on the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. And it's very funny. Perhaps now is not the best time to watch it - or maybe it's just the right time, I'm not sure. I'll let you be the judge. All in all, to sum up: Netflix is awesome.

Finally, here is a photo (from the NY Times) for your thoughts. Think - I dare you.